April 12, 2024

Makin' Moves In Real Estate with Darren James and Tyler Alexander

Makin' Moves In Real Estate with Darren James and Tyler Alexander

On this episode of Local Leaders Darren James and Tyler Alexander share insights from the real estate industry and life lessons! Darren discusses his podcasting journey focused on inspiring others, while Tyler opens up about his family's challenges as...

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On this episode of Local Leaders Darren James and Tyler Alexander share insights from the real estate industry and life lessons! Darren discusses his podcasting journey focused on inspiring others, while Tyler opens up about his family's challenges as of late. Darren emphasizes the importance of discipline and determination in sales, building trust with clients, and community support.
Timestamps
02:08 Starting the Podcast
06:32 Family Struggles and Fundraising
12:36 Building a Team
17:18 Overcoming Fear of Failure
18:48 Transition to LPT Realty
20:59 Impact Beyond Real Estate
31:24 Providing Value to Clients
33:05 Contact Information and Prequalification
you can learn more about Darren James and Tyler Alexander by visiting
https://www.agent225.com
Check out Makin' Moves Podcast on YouTube here!
https://www.youtube.com/ @MakinMoves225

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Hi, this is Crystal Hardison from
Southeastern Livingston Center. I'm the director,

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and you were listening to Local Leaders
the podcast. Hey everyone, and welcome

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back to another edition of Local Leaders
of the podcast. And look, I

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got two guys sitting across from me
that are world renowned in the really real

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estate business. Would you agree with
that? Guys, that's a stretch,

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I'll tell you what in these parts, very well known of course Agent two

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two five himself Yes, yes,
yes, sitting across from me, Darren

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James, and he dare and tease
it. That's it. Thank you so

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much. I love it. Look
you've got a billboard right by my house.

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I mean every morning I see you
on the way to work. I'm

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sorry for then I see you later. I'm sorry for the nightmares, no

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problem. Uh. And of course
Ta Tyler Alexander is joining him. And

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look, first of all, before
we get into anything, I want to

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say, we did a podcast you
were nice enough to ask me on your

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podcast, which is for everybody out
there, is called the Making Moves podcast.

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Uh. And I sent it to
my wife cynth the link and she

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sends me a nice comment back later. And just everybody knows I'm not making

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this up. She says, uh, that was a great podcast with you

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a bunch of explanation points and then
puts, I mean, wow, so

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that's amazing. Thank you, Thank
you so much for the coming for everybody.

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Then when I got home, she
says, Jimmy. She calls me

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Jimmy because she's known me. If
you've known me since nineteen ninety five,

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you call me Jimmy. I turned
it to jim because I thought it would

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sound more mature, but but she
calls me Jimmy, and she said,

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Jimmy, that was such a good
podcast. She said, that young kid,

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what's his name? And I said, boy, he's not a kid,

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I mean younger than me and Darren, but don't make it sound old.

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And she said he is really good. She said his questions were phenomenal,

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and so shout out to you.
You did a great job on that.

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And I said, I told him
that the other day, how good

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he is, don't you. So
shout out to t A. But if

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you want to check that out,
we'll link that podcast in the show notes

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of this podcast. You go check
out Making Moves. And first let's talk

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about that. So Darren, you, uh, you're a real estate agent,

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but you're an exceptional real estate agent
from the aspect of you're always kind

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of teaching others and uh, and
so this podcast came around. You've got

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kind of always played around with podcasts, you weren't new to them. But

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what why why do a podcast?
Well, I just you know, it's

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it's another informal media. You know, it's a way to get to get

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the word out to people. And
I think that uh the way. You

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know, a lot of people digest
information in different ways. Some people are

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visual learners, some people are are
audio learners, and so forth, and

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so I think a podcast doing a
mix of both is really a great way

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to get our message out and to
really change the lives of other people.

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That's the whole reason why we want
to do this. It's, you know,

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we want to help other people make
moves, wherever those moves and wherever

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life is bringing them. Everybody has
a story, everybody has a goal that

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they're wanting to get to. And
you know, whenever Tyler and I came

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together to do this, I mean, I don't know if he realized how

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much of a blessing he's been on
my world and my life, but whenever

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I couldn't think of anybody else to
really do this with. I've done it

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on my own because I'm very disciplined
when it comes to doing things, and

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I just get in things and make
things happen. That's what I do.

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But when I saw Tyler, you
know, is the same way with me.

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He's like a mini me of me. I'm like, well, this

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would be fantastic to do it together
and we can change the lives of other

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people, you know, across the
world. And it's a blessing that,

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you know, from a guy who
has people coming in and out of his

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door all the time. I've seen
a lot of occasions where the want is

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there, but maybe maybe the they're
just not a skill behind the microphone,

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so there's a there's a lot of
sharpening to be done. It's a blessing

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to have a guy that, I
mean, he just took it and ran

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with it. He does He's very, very inquisitive. He asked a lot

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of questions, and I mean I
knew that from the from the day that

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I met Tyler and he rode with
me for for y'all who thinking about back

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to his story on this podcast of
how he got started in this business.

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It's pretty inspirational. The way he
came from a previous uh career of wanting

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to go into physical therapy and then
going into you know, a job offer

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with another national rental company, and
then the transition completely into real estate and

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be as successful as he has so
far. It's just amazing story. And

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so I just very uh he's very
a fast, fast learner. But on

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top of that, he's an implementor. And that's the difference between success and

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failure. Is implementation in anything really
uh you know, I've set it on

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my podcast many times. Great ideas
uh happen people. One one day,

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one guy was sitting around and he
said, I wonder how I can change

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the tea from my seat without having
to get up. And then somebody invented

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the remote control. Well a lot
of people had that thought, but one

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person acted on it. And that's
kind of a big difference in this world.

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Your your people that implement, your
people that act, those are the

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ones that see the success. Yeah. So, and my point to all

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that is, and I'm sure you'd
agree that if you have an idea,

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if you have something, go for
it, you know, don't just lock

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it up inside and think it's too
difficult to achieve. If I listened to

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everybody that told me I couldn't do
this, or how many people thought I

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was crazy for starting a podcast in
Livingston Parish, I mean, uh,

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there was a lot of naysayers out
there. Yeah, and that fueled me.

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You can either use that as fuel
or you can use it as something

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an excuse not to do something.
You know, it's either day one or

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one day. Yes, that's right. And there's a guy I don't know

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if you follow Ted Talks or any
of that type of stuff. I watched

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them, Simon Sinek and so Simon
basically says, you know a lot of

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people get started talking about you know, implementation and and all that. A

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lot of people start with how do
I do something instead of why they need

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to do something. If you begin
with the why, you'll figure out the

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how amens the most that's the most
important part. Well, that's right.

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The why is uh. I used
to say, the why is why they

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buy and and people people buy from
people. You know, it's it's just

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the facts of it. You can
sell anything one time, but when you

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build a relationship, it's a whole
different deed. Absolutely, I believe that.

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And of course in your business,
I'm sure you've sold to fathers and

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daughters and multip I sold a We
believe in relationships over real estate, and

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that's how we operate to the company, is the relationships. The lifetime value

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of a client is so as worth
so much more than a one time sale.

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Sure, and we believe that.
And so I sold four houses maybe

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at six four or four four houses
to a couple out of Hawaii to neurosurgeons

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and never met them in my life. UNTI never saw them until Zoom happened.

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That's when I met them over zoom. And it's crazy. Never shook

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their hands in person, nothing.
I just did little stick transactions for them,

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all through electronic signature. Darren,
go preview the house, did it

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through video, the whole thing.
It's unbelievable. How you know it's it's

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relationships over real estate. Yeah,
it really is. And so, Darren,

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how long have you been in real
Estate's twenty three years? Twenty three

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years? Yeah, does it seem
like twenty three years? Seems like yesterday.

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I remember the first the first time
I did it, I was a

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first transaction. I was out playing
kickball and my mom and dads. My

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mom and dad lived off of Romney
Drive, right where across from Seal Funeral

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Home. HIGHA was sixteen, right
down that little road there behind the car

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wash. And it's playing kickball with
my daughter one day and there was a

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house on the market for sale right
across the street, and I saw these

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people pull in. It was listed
with the Remax company and the people are

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looking through the windows and my dad's
outside. He said, Darren, go

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open the door for that house.
I'm like, Dad, I'm not going

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to open the door for those people. He says, do you want to

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be a realtor? Like yeah,
he said, you want to sell a

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house? I say yeah, he
said, go open, go open the

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door. So I walked over there, opened the door for the people.

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They loved the house. I remember. I walked in to the door,

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looked in there canary yellow. I
mean, the yellowest house I've ever seen

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in my life. This was the
paint colors on that side of this house.

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Is never said with this paint cor
mean, it's like it's blinding,

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goes up bright. Yeah. I'm
like, oh my gosh. Well,

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anyway, they wanted to buy the
house. So that was the first house

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that I sold. Didn't know anything
about anything. I had crazy cell phone

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minutes at the time I think was
thirty minutes a month for thirty nine ninety

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nine a month at the time back
then. Yeah, and I'm like myself,

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bill was like eight hundred and something
dollars. I'm like, oh my

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god, are you kidding? And
it just inspections were different. Purchase agreement

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was one page on the front side, the disclosure was one page on the

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backside. Wow, the paperwork was
so much easier. You know, eleven

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page document now for the purchase agream, but ten pages for the disclosure.

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It's just the times are changed.
And it was. That was my first

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deal, and then from that point
forward, I said, man, I

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love this. And I didn't know
if I was good at it. I

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just knew that I was changing the
lives and giving somebody an opportunity to get

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something that they wanted, and I'm
facilitating that. Loved it. Yeah,

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you felt like you were you were
in a place where you belong. Yeah,

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absolutely, you know, and a
comfort almost tell you that this is

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where I'm meant to be. Tell
you a funny story about this, right,

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love it. So this is the
this is the most ridiculous marketing I've

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ever done in my life. You're
going to crack off when you, Oh

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God, listen. So I couldn't
afford a wrap vehicle, so my dad

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gave me a mas of the MPV
mini van donated to me one hundred and

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ninety eight thousand miles on this man, yeah, it donates it to me.

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I said, Man, I want
to have everybody know what I do.

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So I went to office depot and
I printed out eight and a half

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by eleven sheets of paper with my
telephone number on my print my home printer.

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Yeah, freaking my tele name,
telephone number, freaking cold banker logo

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on some thing. Stuck it on
my car. No, oh yeah,

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like a like a bumper stick.
That's awesome. It was the most It

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was the most cheesiest thing I've ever
seen in my life. And then I

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said, yeah, people are gonna
see my card, they can see all

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this kind of stuff. I'm a
real estate guy. And then it freaking

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rained and my ink smooth love it. I'm like, oh my god,

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I didn't think of that part.
I was definitely innovative, Bavid, that

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was the best one. But that's
great. Well, and I'm glad you

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brought that up, because from one
salesperson to another. And I say that

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with with pride. You know,
UH, sales people sometimes get a bad

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name that industry, but I say
it with pride. I was always proud

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to be a salesperson. But really
I was a problem solver. That's the

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way I looked at it. I
was solving a problem. You solve a

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problem, a major problem. You
don't got a house, and I'm gonna

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get you one, or I'm gonna
say you one. Now, you have

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always been very innovative in in uh, in your marketing, something that I

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actually paid attention to. I didn't
know you, but I your marketing spoke

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for itself. I knew you through
your marketing. I would ride neighborhoods and

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I'd see your name and your signs. And one day I'm driving down the

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road and I see this truck and
it says, I don't remember I'm paraphrasing,

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but buy a house with me,
and you get to use this stroke

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for very basically, and I thought, that's genius. That is a great

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idea. Nobody else was doing that
at that time. That that same truck

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actually during the flood of sixteen and
lived Sparish. It helps seventeen families get

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their stuff and get their belongings transition
to their that's beautiful charge. Yeah yeah,

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yeah, that's and just these these
ideas that got you way out of

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the box. And when I was
a young salesperson and I'm watching this and

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we've we've been in sales about the
same amount of time. I uh,

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I would well, I copy it, Darren. I mean, there's a

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lot of things I would use,
you know, and uh, and I

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would sit there and brainstorm. I'm
like, this guy knows what he's doing.

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So it's interesting how life comes full
circle many years later, I meet

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you and now you're doing a podcast, and and way back then I kind

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of felt like I knew you.
Just I knew one thing. This guy

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was a hustler like I was.
And uh, in his world, he

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was, you know, making a
name for himself and doing all these things.

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Uh. At some point you and
t A got hooked up. Tell

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everybody had you and t A not
so so. T A was friends with

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my daughter Derby and came over to
the house of numerous barbecues and I to

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do I used to do what's called
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for all of her friends hang out
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know where I'm going on Sundays,
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way to let them hang out,
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coming up and swimming to swimm pool
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so he was good friends with her, and he did some landscaping at my

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house and had a great time doing
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of Club. It was a great, great, uh great experience there.

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And I got out the business exactly
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to know why, you can reach
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of me, I promise. But
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just uh I knew immediately when I
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the drive. You know, it
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the doors wanting to get into our
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of like I mentioned on a previous
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business built off seven core values loyalty, due to respect, self a service,

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honor, integrity, and personal commitment
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forms an acronym that spells leadership.
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but also on top of that,
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to really go above and beyond for
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just knew when I met him that, hey, this guy has hit in

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the right direction whatever his career was
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I was just so fortunate to be
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Yeah, I would, I would
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word discip when you said it a
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that's important in sales because salespeople aren't
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a lot of companies are putting salespeople
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in and out everywhere they go.
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former company, I spoke out of
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if we've got to GPS a guy
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he's probably not the right guy for
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Maybe. You know the great thing
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what you're doing, that's exact right. There's no other proof needed if you're

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if you're selling ten million dollars worth
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gonna leave you alone. If you're
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selling ten million. Same thing in
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was selling millions of dollars, you
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I didn't care what he did.
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is working. Volume shows discipline.
Volume shows discipline. And that was the

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beautiful thing that we're coining that for
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trademark, but it's a beautiful thing. When you're in an industry where your

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your sales speak for themselves, you
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doing anything because guess what, if
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you're not gonna sell a whole lot
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in. So that was something that
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is disciplined. You have to be
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need, you don't want somebody that's
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They they should be able to just
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And look, they don't grow on
trees. Yeah, that's right. I

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mean you'll go through ten ten before
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a ta uh where you don't have
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for themselves. But the good thing
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You're an example you know of that? Have you always had that discipline?

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Always? Yeah? That came up
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childhood, you know. So I
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never got to number one in the
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yeah. And there there was a
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unbelievable bike rature. I never could
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just fast, Like his legs were
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come wake me up on Saturdays and
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We got a good race. You
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daylights burning, And that's kind of
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world. My dad still to this
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will outwork me. I called him
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coming back and Justin England and one
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listings yesterday. Wow, And so
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coming back from I played the league
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nights, and so coming back from
my league last night. Called me down

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on the phone, tell him good
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night. Eleven o'clock I called him. So I called him up and so

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what you're doing, he says,
I'm working on these listens for Justin right

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now. I'm like, good Lord
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he doesn't stop. Yeah, it's
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You know. It's the model that
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have ran by. It's late to
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no other advertise. Oh I like
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that. That's that's the way I
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when I leave this, they can't
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you know, without working, because
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and it's not really worked to me. You know, the only time

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success comes before work is in the
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you have another word that's there.
It's called sacrifice. And you have

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to make those sacrifice to live today
and have a life to and work as

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hard as you can today so tomorrow
you can have a life and know whenever

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thought is possible. The second you
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of people fail. I said,
not fail, you know, like even

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entrepreneurs are people, and you know, we talked about earlier about making the

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jump into things. You know,
people to be successful in whatever you do,

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you got to take a risk.
And people don't take risk because their

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scale or failure. Yeah, that's
the biggest why nine to nine percent of

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people don't take a risk, especially
in the entrepreneurship. We're doing your own

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podcast. But you got to switch
your mindset. Failure is a great thing

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because it's one step closer to success, and you're going to fail before you

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succeed no matter what you do,
whether it's sports, whether it's a job,

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whatever it is. But everyone's scared
of that F word, you know,

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when it's it's an awesome thing.
Yeah, what you learn from the

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success as you learn, absolutely you're
constantly winning and you never lose a race.

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Uh when you finally lose that race. One problem is most of those

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people don't know how to deal with
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Uh. But if you're someone that
that learns from your failures. And I've

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failed at many things, but I
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I just call it a learning experience
because what I did was I dusted myself

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off, I got up, and
I figured out what I did wrong,

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and and I changed whatever it was
I was doing. There's actually a book

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out there called a fell Forward,
and it's still you have to do.

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I mean, that's that's the next
step toward winning. You know it is.

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In our industry, we do a
lot of calling. Right, we're

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on the call, we're dialing for
dollars, calling whatever the case may be,

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and so we go for nos what
it's called. We love to get

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the nose because we know it's one
step closer to it. Yes, that's

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right, that's right. And let's
talk about your company, Real qu sure,

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So you are with LPT. Real
LPT really opened up the state of

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Louisiana for them and two that and
Scember of twenty twenty three, and so

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we came in here and just a
great company originated out of Florida, and

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the CEO, Robert Palmer, basically
came to us and said, hey,

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look, you know we want you
to open up in Louisiana. Would your

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team be open to do that?
And we're like, what is it in

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take? And you know, what
is it? Entail? And so we

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were happy at our previous company.
But this company, people asked us all

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the time, why do we make
the move? You know, I made

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the move primarily to give my team
members more opportunity. Yeah, and more

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marketing for the sellers, more opportunity
for my team members. Just more opportunity

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for everybody all the way around.
Because you know, this is not the

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Darren Show. It's not that at
all. It's our show. It's our

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team. And you know, we
fell together, we learned together, we

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win together, and that's what it's
about. And so I want to give

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other people opportunities that they never thought
was possible. And I want to give

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the best level of service and the
best level of commitment to our class that

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we possibly could. Hard to beat
that and I saw they were whining and

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dying in ta over there in Florida. Yes, he looked like he was

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having a good old time. Hey, yeah, let's enjoying it. That's

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it. And Darren was racing cars
and riding with Mario Andretti. That's a

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real story, y'all. Ain't making
that up. He was with Mario Andretti.

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Yes, I was worried. Yes, the dude was taking carners like

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I've never seen before. I'm like, man, and I've been in a

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police car. I'd rude in a
police car. Yeah, at high rates

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of speed before. But yeah,
that's on the tracks. Completely different word,

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completely different world. It looked like
fun and and you know, once

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in a lifetime thing, Yes for
you. Absolutely. It was a little

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charity event that we put on for
UH Kids for carts and UH type deal

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where we were able to ride with
Mario and he drove around the track a

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couple of laps and it gave back
to charity. So it's a great deal,

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beautiful thing. And another thing I
want to say about your podcast is,

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uh, what's interesting about it for
all the pizza out there that listen

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to mine, is uh, not
only do you get a little knowledge on

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UH, on Darren James and on
Tyler Alexander, but you also get a

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lot of knowledge about real estate and
just about winning at things. Yes,

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one thing I really like about your
podcast is it's not it's not you know,

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forty five minutes of sitting around just
talking about houses. You're talking about

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life lessons. Absolutely, things you're
learning, you're motivating and and I know

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a lot of people personally are really
into that. So I definitely recommend you

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check that out. Tyler. I
do want to ask you real quick.

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I know you're having kind of a
trying time in your family right now.

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We want to mention that. And
we did a podcast prior to this,

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and I'm going to take that clip
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podcast because I want you, I
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of what's going on in Tyler's life. So here's that clip. So,

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yeah, so you know the stuff
with my mom. So my mom has

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was diagnosed with Parkinson's when she was
twenty two years old, and she's been

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pretty much battling into her whole life. She's never had the symptoms, haven't

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really been there. She's had trimmers
and stuff, but as of about a

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year ago, the symptoms just took
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She started getting dystonia, which is
a very common thing in Parkinson's patients,

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which pretty much makes your feet turn
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kicks the back of her other leg
she falls, and so she is messed

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up her hip, she's messed up
her legs. She already had seventeen surgeries

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on her knee from a medical malpractice
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seven. So she's already struggled struggled
walking before now and it's just affecting her

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quality Her quality of life has completely
went down. She can't work anymore,

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she can't do anything. Her trimmer
is getting bad. And so about four

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months ago we heard about this surgery
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and it's a very successful surgery for
a lot of parkingsticipations that we've read

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on it. But my mom was
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when she had this malpractice done back
in two thousand and seven on her knee,

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pretty much long story short, what
would happened. She dislocated her knee

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and went to the lake. They
told her they needed to break her tibia

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and realign it because she kept having
dislocations. Well, when he did that,

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he ran a ride from her ankle
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in and when he did that,
it had merca on it. What's the

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staff? So she got staff in
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staff you can get. It's almost
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and ended up spreading throughout her body
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halo on her leg. Couldn't work. She was in ICU for probably six

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months on life support, and we
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found. We ended up looking up
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knee doctor in America and his name's
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Texas, And we called him told
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need to get here tomorrow. And
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lake. We left, went straight
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surgery right then and ended up doing
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to save her leg and so she
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rest of her life from that.
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surgery is I mean, it's an
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in and drill six holes in her
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they place on her brain, and
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a box that's right here. It's
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connected be a bluetooth to an iPhone
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come, she goes on her iPhone
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into her brain and it stops her
trimmor, it helps her walking, it

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turns herdystonia out and everything. The
risk to the surgery for her is that

401
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once you have staff or once you
have mursa once it does not leave your

402
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body, and anytime you cut open
into your body, it has a chance

403
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of spreading throughout. In the worst
case, the worst place it could ever

404
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get is your brain, which is
where she's about to have surgery. Also,

405
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my grandma in twenty sixteen, which
is her mom, died from a

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brain bleed. So when we first
heard about it, We're like, we

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don't know if it's worth doing that, And now it's just got to a

408
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point where, you know, the
quality of life is just so bad on

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her now that she has to get
it done. So we are decided to

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put on an event because she has
not been able to work now for about

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a year. She won't be able
to work for a while after this,

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so we're putting on an event for
her surgery as well, because insurance is

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not paying for the full bill for
the surgery and it's very expensive. So

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this Saturday at Oak Point, April
thirteenth, ten thirty, we're going to

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do selling jumbal Aye plates for ten
dollars a plate to raise money for her

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for her surgery and everything, and
also to bring awareness to Parkinson's because a

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lot of people who don't you know
Parkinson's. You hear about it, but

418
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until you deal with somebody with it, you don't see just how awful.

419
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I mean, it's the most awful
disease next to all Zeimer's that you can

420
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get, and it doesn't from the
outside. You don't really know until you

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see somebody that's affected by it.
It's a very, very, very horrible

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disease that there's no cure for it, you know, so this surgery is

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just to improve her quality of life, and you know it's not going to

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cure Parkinson's. You know, Parkins's
will do its toll on her down the

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road, and hopefully it's longer than
sooner. So we're doing that this Saturday

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to you know, raise money,
get donations in. We have had so

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many people reach out and I had
like seventy something shares on Facebook. We've

428
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already raised almost one thousand dollars just
off my Facebook post for her yesterday.

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So we're very excited and she's excited. You know, we're hoping this surgery

430
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is going to go well. It's
a two day surgery. They're going to

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do the left side of her brain
and then she's gonna go back in May

432
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and get the right side done and
that's when they will turn on the device

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and hopefully everything goes well. So
okay, so you just heard that,

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and we're going to put all the
information on that in the show notes of

435
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this. My heart goes out to
you, obviously, and I know that's

436
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tough. I just pray that that
everything ends up. Okay. I appreciate

437
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that so much, and I appreciate
y'all. You know, I know when

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I put it on Facebook, I
know times in this world are tough.

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Money's tight with everybody, so we
don't expect anyone to donate, but if

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you can, we'd definitely be very
supportive of it, and we love for

441
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you to come out and hang out
and have some have some jambalaya and hopefully

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help for a good calls for my
mom and praying that the surgery goes well

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and can get her body of life
back. One d per derin James,

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Yes, sir, maybe give us
a story, an example of someone that

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you really helped in your business that
was outside of kind of the realm of

446
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what you do. Maybe a house
that you sold for someone that really made

447
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it a changing life difference for them. Because I know a lot of people

448
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out there, I think one one
thing I'd like to say with regard to

449
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house sales is a lot of people
think that's unattainable or something they just can't

450
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get, you know, it just
seems impossible for them. I had a

451
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one of my first sales back in
two thousand and two thousand and one,

452
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yeah, and maybe two thousand and
two. I just really knew in the

453
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business. I had a couple come
up to me and they'd been married for

454
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thirty eight years. And the guy
comes up to me says, uh,

455
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mister James, I heard you're good
in real estate, and I want to

456
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buy my wife a house. I
promised her when we got married, i'd

457
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eventually buy our house. I've been
written all these years, and I said,

458
00:28:15.960 --> 00:28:17.880
well, Sarah, can I ask
you? You know, why why

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were you written so long? He
says, I didn't know how to buy

460
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a house and I didn't think I
could. I'm like, well, I'm

461
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gonna do whatever I can to help
you. And I said, you know,

462
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you have you gotten pretty quified finances, went through all the questions and

463
00:28:29.160 --> 00:28:30.400
so forth and so on. He
said, no, sir, I don't

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need need financing. I said,
okay. I said, you're going to

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pay cash. I said, he
said, yes, sir, I'm going

466
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to pay cash. So we started
looking at housing and so forth and so

467
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on, and you know, going
through the process and all this kind of

468
00:28:44.160 --> 00:28:45.799
stuff. And I was fairly new
in the business two years in whatever.

469
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Didn't ask for proof of funds or
any of that type of stuff. Just

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doing the right thing for these people
to try to help them get to their

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next step in their world, you
know, and going through it. He's

472
00:28:56.640 --> 00:28:59.759
he comes in, he says,
mister James, I found the right house,

473
00:28:59.759 --> 00:29:02.319
thinking showing me these houses to me. And he walks out to his

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00:29:02.400 --> 00:29:04.720
car and he comes back in with
a breecase and he opens up a breacase.

475
00:29:06.079 --> 00:29:08.279
They had one hundred and five thousand
dollars in that briefcase. Wow,

476
00:29:08.400 --> 00:29:15.079
cash money. And I'm like,
you've been driving around one hundred five Like,

477
00:29:15.160 --> 00:29:19.000
oh my god, he says,
when can we close? I'm like,

478
00:29:19.079 --> 00:29:22.799
well, we you can go through
the process. And I'm like,

479
00:29:22.839 --> 00:29:26.720
oh my god, I go this
is insane. But yeah, So we

480
00:29:26.839 --> 00:29:30.559
ended up closing the deal and I
still talk to that couple still to this

481
00:29:30.640 --> 00:29:36.160
day. They still are doing great. He's eighty four now she's eighty three,

482
00:29:36.880 --> 00:29:41.640
still living in the same house and
doing well. So it's it's an

483
00:29:41.680 --> 00:29:47.519
amazing It's just an amazing, amazing
story. And you just never know the

484
00:29:47.559 --> 00:29:49.599
lives that you're going to impact in
our career. You know, everybody has

485
00:29:49.640 --> 00:29:55.240
a you know, the man upstairs. I talk about God all the time

486
00:29:55.279 --> 00:30:00.480
because He's done a lot for me
in my world, and every day at

487
00:30:00.559 --> 00:30:03.240
noon, I have a reminder.
We have an app on on our phones.

488
00:30:03.440 --> 00:30:04.759
T A and I and one of
my team members have something called do

489
00:30:04.920 --> 00:30:08.720
du E. It reminds you every
minute to complete a task. Until that

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00:30:10.000 --> 00:30:12.000
task is completed, U snooze a
reminder. So you can never forget to

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00:30:12.039 --> 00:30:15.079
do anything. Oh love never,
you can never forget, you know because

492
00:30:15.079 --> 00:30:17.960
like a lot of times, if
you put in the regular reminder app on

493
00:30:17.960 --> 00:30:19.880
an iPhone and you're on the phone, it'll alert you, but it may

494
00:30:19.920 --> 00:30:23.880
not alert you again. Yeah,
well this thing or will alert you every

495
00:30:23.880 --> 00:30:26.680
minute basically all the way I got
on set up so I can't forget to

496
00:30:26.680 --> 00:30:30.960
do anything. So at noon every
day it says, you know, remind

497
00:30:30.119 --> 00:30:33.319
you know, thank Jesus for the
blessings that you have and all that type

498
00:30:33.359 --> 00:30:37.559
of stuff. And so I pray
every day at noon for people and so

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00:30:37.160 --> 00:30:41.400
long endother the story, sharp,
I just he put us on this world

500
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to have a life to where we
could, you know, not only be

501
00:30:45.640 --> 00:30:49.200
successful, but to thrive in And
this career has been unbelievably rewarding for me.

502
00:30:49.400 --> 00:30:52.640
Just the people that I'm able to
hear their story and their journey of

503
00:30:52.759 --> 00:30:56.759
whether it's the first time home buyer, trying to buy their first house,

504
00:30:56.200 --> 00:31:00.400
you know, retired couple trying to
downsize and relocate somewhere, or whatever their

505
00:31:00.440 --> 00:31:03.319
story is, someone who's going through
a divorce, getting out of a bad

506
00:31:03.319 --> 00:31:07.279
marriage, whatever the case may be, going their separate ways. How can

507
00:31:07.279 --> 00:31:11.920
we be instrumental in really helping them
get to their next step in that world?

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00:31:11.599 --> 00:31:14.759
Is what's so important to us in
our team. You know, it

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00:31:14.799 --> 00:31:18.759
doesn't matter if it's a fifty thousand
dollars home or fifty million dollar home.

510
00:31:18.039 --> 00:31:21.680
If it's important to that person,
it's important to us in our team.

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00:31:21.720 --> 00:31:26.839
That's right, that's right. And
so for the people out there that maybe

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00:31:26.839 --> 00:31:30.720
you're not sure, maybe you're not
sure at this point, if you can

513
00:31:30.799 --> 00:31:33.559
qualify for our house or something like
that, Darren can lead you to the

514
00:31:33.599 --> 00:31:36.680
right people or maybe get it.
You know, he's got enough he's not

515
00:31:36.720 --> 00:31:40.480
a loan officer, but he's got
enough experience he could he could help you

516
00:31:40.519 --> 00:31:42.640
along your path. A lot of
good connections in that industry in regards to

517
00:31:42.680 --> 00:31:45.279
what they're looking for. And it's
not only in the buying and selling of

518
00:31:45.279 --> 00:31:48.599
a house either that we help with, right, Because so somebody may have

519
00:31:48.599 --> 00:31:52.680
bought their house through their Aunt Joe
or whoever it is, ant Bobby or

520
00:31:52.680 --> 00:31:55.079
whoever it is. They may have
bought a house a long time ago and

521
00:31:55.079 --> 00:31:56.519
they may want to put an awning
on there, put some concrete in there,

522
00:31:56.680 --> 00:32:00.599
or do this. We have connections
with local contractors and service providers that

523
00:32:00.640 --> 00:32:05.319
have given great service over the years
that we want to provide that resource to

524
00:32:05.359 --> 00:32:07.039
the public as well to where you
know, these are people that we trust,

525
00:32:07.039 --> 00:32:09.160
that we know that's going to do
a good job for them. That

526
00:32:09.200 --> 00:32:13.000
it doesn't matter if they used us
or not. It's a matter of how

527
00:32:13.039 --> 00:32:16.160
can we provide as much value as
we possibly can to the consumer to help

528
00:32:16.200 --> 00:32:19.640
them get to their next level in
their world, wherever it may be.

529
00:32:19.799 --> 00:32:23.200
I like that, So, so
I'm going to link all the information also

530
00:32:23.319 --> 00:32:29.400
for you company and in y'all's personal
information. And uh, if you want

531
00:32:29.440 --> 00:32:31.119
more information, if you need someone
to go look at a house with you,

532
00:32:32.920 --> 00:32:37.359
they'd love to do so. And
uh, pre qualification important. Oh,

533
00:32:37.440 --> 00:32:39.599
absolutely, it's important. It's very
important. Absolutely. Yeah, we

534
00:32:39.599 --> 00:32:43.119
got to know what they can buy, you know, for if they want

535
00:32:43.119 --> 00:32:44.960
to buy, we don't want someone
to you know. Then the reason why

536
00:32:45.000 --> 00:32:47.119
it's most important is because you get
out there and showing houses right. You

537
00:32:47.119 --> 00:32:50.799
don't want to you know, if
you're looking at a house it's you know,

538
00:32:50.880 --> 00:32:52.559
three hundred thousand dollars. We don't
want you to fall in love with

539
00:32:52.559 --> 00:32:54.759
the house and then not be able
to be let down because you can't purchase

540
00:32:54.799 --> 00:32:57.720
it. Right. We want to
make sure that we set you up for

541
00:32:57.720 --> 00:33:00.200
success from the very good goes or
vice versa. Maybe you qualify for more

542
00:33:00.240 --> 00:33:05.359
than you think and you could step
up at house and you don't even realize.

543
00:33:05.680 --> 00:33:07.200
Sure that it happens all the time
to you. Yeah, for sure.

544
00:33:07.279 --> 00:33:10.519
So we'll link all of that,
uh, so that way you can

545
00:33:10.559 --> 00:33:14.160
get in touch with them. Thank
you for coming on. We're gonna link

546
00:33:14.200 --> 00:33:17.279
your podcast on here and uh maybe
every now and then we'll just do a

547
00:33:17.359 --> 00:33:22.920
little round table on local leaders uh
and talk about the what's going on with

548
00:33:22.000 --> 00:33:24.920
you guys over there the LP.
Yeah, we would love it, man,

549
00:33:24.960 --> 00:33:28.839
Thank you so much for having us. Awesome, awesome show, Awesome

550
00:33:28.839 --> 00:33:30.880
what you're doing for the community,
Awesome, the value that you bring so

551
00:33:30.880 --> 00:33:34.880
many people every single day. We
really appreciate you so much. Thank you.

552
00:33:34.960 --> 00:33:37.160
I appreciate it, and I appreciate
all you listeners, as always say

553
00:33:37.160 --> 00:33:42.440
on this show, and you you
watchers, Uh, we're nothing without you.

554
00:33:42.480 --> 00:33:45.759
Please keep sharing if if you're enjoying
the content. We're coming up on

555
00:33:45.799 --> 00:33:51.559
almost a mean downloads I saw yesterday
which is a mind blowing to me,

556
00:33:52.759 --> 00:33:55.000
just absolutely mind blowing in it has
nothing to do with me, everything to

557
00:33:55.000 --> 00:33:59.519
do with the people I have on
this show and their stories and things of

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that nature. So until next time, I'm Jim Chapman reminding you love your

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community, support local business, and
keep leading things